What's your view like?

I have to constantly remind myself  that it's how you phrase the question when you are looking for answers.

Want to know what foods will help you? Don't search for what is unhealthy, your short answer to that is everything is bad for you. Instead ask, what foods will help me get to where I want.

Do you want to learn something new? Don't focus on learning something new in a field you already know, focus on something you know nothing about.

Do you want a new friend or job, don't look in your little bubble, look outside. I promise the world is bigger and better when you receive it instead of view it.

Do you want a better life, don't ask what you are doing wrong, ask what you can do to get it.

People who say they have tried everything known to man, are not people I would hang around. People who make excuses for why they do what they do, are not the type for me.

People who sigh, roll their eyes, or are full of sarcasm are defensive creatures that will rip you up before they communicate properly. Take these things and dust them off. Don't let things like this affect you. You will have good an bad days all on your own.

Not every time will the answer come to you. Not every time will you like the answer. Sometimes you may not be in a receptive season at the moment. Don't be afraid to place things on hold so that you don't overextend yourself therefore doing more harm than good.

Pay attention to the words that are used most often by you and those that are around you. Are they focusing on the can't, shouldn't, and wouldn't parts of life. Maybe it's time for a brain-cation. Change every can't into, can. Change every shouldn't into "How can I?". Change every wouldn't into will.